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Friday, September 05, 2014

Tears - of joy and pride!

I have a story to share today (being typed as tears drip down my face).  Our sons grew up with a special friend who became one of the boys that we loved as well.  Steven was in and out of our house all the time (as I know our boys were in and out of his).  He could be counted on to know the weather report inside and out, and he was the conscience of our boys.  Steven was, and is, incapable of telling a lie and if our boys happened to do something that was not quite up to our standards, we would be sure to hear about it.  With that hanging over their heads, I'm sure our boys thought twice about doing many of the things that would have gotten them into deep trouble!  Don't get me wrong - Steven was not a tattle tale - it was simply that his conscience would not allow him to participate in any wrong doing.

To illustrate that point....our oldest son was somewhat of a dare-devil and would do things that he shouldn't and one evening he thought it would be 'fun' to try something that he'd seen at school.  The premise was that you shook a can of pop and then inserted a straight pin into the side of it.  Removing the pin would then (theoretically) result in shooting the pop with great force into your mouth.  Well, as things are prone to doing, the pin shot out of the can with great force and then promptly disappeared.  The boys turned the family room upside down hunting for the pin and Steven finally came to the conclusion that perhaps, just perhaps, said pin had gone down RJ's throat with the force of the pop.  Despite huge protests from RJ, Steven did the right thing and got Mom and Dad.  Suffice to say, a scary trip to the ER ensued and yes indeed, pin was lodged in RJ's stomach lining.  Had it gotten loose it could have resulted in a perforated bowel or heaven only knows what. 

Despite all these goings on, Steven has remained a friend to all of us and, although he has moved away and we don't see him often he is still 'our' kid.

I think, by now, (if you have read this far), you will have figured out that Steven is a special needs person.  The 'pride' portion of this post comes from an article that is in the paper about Stephen being chosen as the Canadian Special Olympics male athlete of the year.  He has won many gold medals competing for Canada in the Special Olympics with his main sport being speed skating.  He also competes in the summer sports and does equally as well. 

If you would like to read more about him and about his competitions with Special Olympics, go HERE.    As you can see, we are SO proud of him!!

Today the quote is from Christopher Reeve... "I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds the strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles"




10 comments:

Tuna Lures said...

tears rolled down after reading the post....

Mary Ann said...

Lovely story about a special person:)

Tammy said...

Mary Anne that was a beautiful story and amazing that your son had a pin in his stomach. I can see that you have a wonderful friend in your family. No doubt the joy of his accomplishments will be yours as well. I'm glad I came to read the other reason you were teary eyed today!! It's been a wonderful and poignant day for me for sure!!!

Carol- Beads and Birds said...

Steven is very special and definitely an athlete to be proud of. I also think your boys are pretty special too!
Xx Carol

Anonymous said...

Being a local I have known Steven and his family almost all of my life. He is a genuine sweetheart and an inspiration to everyone.
Sue
aka Mrs Noofy

liniecat said...

Oh what a totally wonderful article to tuck away with all those delightful memories too!
Bless his heart and many congrats!!

Tami @ Lemon Tree Tales said...

What a great story .. thanks for sharing a bit of your life with Steven. And congrats to him for being named the Canadian male athlete ... what an accomplishment!

~*~Patty S said...

Thank you for sharing such a special and talented guy with us...
sniff sniff ♥
oxo

Vicki Boster said...

Such a lovely story-- Steven is lucky to have your boys as great friends and they are blessed to be his friend. Such a wonderful story of triumph and determination--
Vicki

karen said...

Stephen sounds like a very special young man.....My son swallowed the actual ring pull from a can of Pepsi!! Yes...he did...and he was 14 at the time.